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rudyfaile.com

The age of the soft skill

The engineer who missed meetings, answered Slack when they felt like it, and audibly sighed when you asked them to write something down.

dontasktoask.com

Don’t ask to ask, just ask

If you're not willing to do the work to solve your problem, why should we?

lethain.com

Middle management roles are also a trap

Most middle management roles make practicing executive skills difficult, and sometimes negatively select against developing them.

hvpandya.com

The hierarchy of competence

Nine stages of how people operate at work, in strict order, where each one is measured by a job it removes from your manager.

seangoedecke.com

You don’t have to be smart if you can think clearly

Why structured deduction stabilizes engineering performance under complex constraints.

lesswrong.com

When should you know the point?

Are activities motivated by an array of reasons much less useful than ones done with a distinct purpose?

terriblesoftware.org

Why am I doing the thinking for you?

‘What do you think?’ without a position isn’t a question — it’s a task assignment. State your opinion first.

architectelevator.com

The mighty metaphor

Set your audience free to think for themselves.

hvpandya.com

The invisible work

The coordination work that holds projects together disappears the moment it works.

wordstotime.com

Convert words to time

Quickly convert the number of words in a talk, presentation, or speech to how many minutes it will take to read.

thekernel.news

A little bit uncomfortable

When I realized there was no real way to move on in that career I loved without having to present my work to audiences.

grahamduncan.blog

What’s going on here, with this human?

Recommendations about candidate selection based on thousands of assessments and a somewhat obsessive interest in the topic.

werd.io

Disagree and let’s see

“Disagree and commit” is disingenuous. Here is a better idea.

another.rodeo

Feedback doesn’t scale

Listening is always hard, and it only gets harder at scale.

scatterarrow.com

All your coworkers are probabilistic too

LLMs, humans and the old tricks that still work.

seangoedecke.com

How I influence company politics as a staff software engineer

You don't need to be fatalistic about company politics.

herbertlui.net

Don’t let a misunderstanding distract you from your goals

You can decide what certain moments mean to you.

terriblesoftware.org

Stop avoiding politics

Most engineers think workplace politics is dirty. They’re wrong. Refusing to play politics doesn’t make you noble; it makes you ineffective.

chaoticgood.management

How to be a leader when the vibes are off

Something has curdled. AI hype, return-to-office mandates, and continued layoffs have shifted the mood. How to keep morale up?

ashmann.co

The illusion of alignment

How cultural norms like politeness, power imbalance, and rushed decision-making lead to fragile consensus in projects.